Tuesday, March 4, 2008

People don't change. They want to. They need to.

Dr House: People don't change. They want to. They need to.

Last night I watched one of my favourite series, Dr House. In episode 12 season 4, Dr House mentioned the above words which make me think about it quite a while. For me, what Dr House said is true. I'm totally agree with him. People don't change. Maybe they want to change. Maybe they need to change. But people don't suddenly choose to change without the sudden of need to change.

Maybe it is quite hard to understand but if given a situation like below, it will be easier to understand the expressions by Dr House.

Situation 1
Shahid (not a real name) fall in love with Alyaa (not a real name). Before knowing Alyaa, Shahid was a casanova who is wooing any girls that he likes without thinking of the later consequences. But after knowing Alyaa, Shahid promise to himself that he want to change; he need to change. This is what it means by people don't suddenly change unless they have a valid and reasonable reason to change. But unfortunately, the fact that people don't change is 99.99% true, Shahid eventually start to change back and become what he was in his old days. Alyaa then will said that Shahid have changed compare to the time when they first met each other which is 100% false because of the fact that people don't change. At the later stage of their relationship, Shahid is just showing his real personality, his real life and the true of himself. That's why I said that people don't change unless they are willing to change when the right time has come.

What are you guys opinion? I leave this question for you guys to think and ponder about it.

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

change takes time...
sudden change only occurs if the said person experianced a cataclysmic event in his/her life...

Ameirul Azraie Bin Mustadza said...

Yups..U r correct! Correct..Correct..Correct :p

Anakecil said...

pecah lubang haha..aku rasa perubahan datang dari pengalaman,seperti anonymous kata.kecuali dah bebal sgt,mungkin tak berubah.atau mungkin seseorang ada sebab tersendiri untuk kekal sebegitu?walau di sangka buruk oleh org lain.

Ameirul Azraie Bin Mustadza said...

yups.btol tu anak kecil!
perubahan datang dari pengalaman.
sebab tu aku kata, people don't change.
people do change but people don't suddenly change.
heehehe.

Pintukecemasan said...

"not a real name"
drama sungguh.
btw nice randomly picked up

Ameirul Azraie Bin Mustadza said...

haha..jika shahid dan alyaa yang sebenar baca harap abaikan sebab nama yang digunakan tiada kaitan dengan yang hidup mahu pun yang telah mati

Anonymous said...

babi la jae!! hahahaa!!!
100% false eyh?

Ameirul Azraie Bin Mustadza said...

hahaha..alyaa!
aa.frankly speaking, 100% false la because people don't change.
people do change bila ada something yang jadi dalam life diorg, cm ade awek ke parents meninggal ke.
tapi eventually dia akan start utk jd diri yg sebenar blk.
hehehe..tapi alyaa (nama sebenar) dan shahid (nama sebenar) sgt sweet.
hope diorg akan kekal sampai ke cucu cicit! =)

Anonymous said...

yea.. i do agree with the fact that people will never change.
experience and situations that might have affected them deeply will change them,even if its only for a moment.

Ameirul Azraie Bin Mustadza said...

yeay!mekaseh alyaa sebab sokong saya!
mekaseh sebab menyokong prinsip doctor house!hidup doctor house! :)

sourplum said...

citer btul nih.. sian kt watak2 tersebut
lalala~

Ameirul Azraie Bin Mustadza said...

hehehe.cite hanyalah rekaan semata-mata la sapong. tiada kaitan dengan shahid mahupun alyaa :p

wawashauqi said...

aku yang da bnyak brubah pe.
kalau kite brubah dan org kata "tu bkn die. die hipokrit', persetankan. k
kite tau kite bkn hipokrit. tapi jd org baru yg da sedar kesan buruk menjadi diri yg dulu.